Matchmaker matchmaker make me a match

Yes, dating in the paganworld is an absolute nightmare. It is a very small pond I am fishing in and most good fish have gone already. So should I settle with less? NO WAY. But still, wouldn't it be nice to wake up next to someone that understands my believes and knows where I am coming from.

The dating issue came up in an online female pagan group. I found out I am really not the only one with this problem. We just can't find the single pagan men.... where are they!

In our discussion we found that it would be a great idea to have some kind of pagan matchmaking service to help a lot of us single ladies in the process. So, who knows any single guys (looking in all age groups) because there are a lot of lovely ladies looking for that special one to make a connection with!

And for me, well, I just wait my time and hope to find someone to love :).

Update about my life

It has been a while since I posted on this weblog. My little chicklings aren't little anymore and finally have flown away. The weather has changed too so now it is getting much colder and the harvest storms have left the country.

I am truying to get to know myself spiritually again. I have been a wiccan for over 10 years but it doesn't fit me anymore. I don't want a complicated religion with many rules. I want a religion that I understand and I can fit myself into and which I can fit around me. I am looking in all different directions (no, christianity isn't it ;)). I found some stuff about my old dutch heritage and the old religions of my land. I don't know what to do with this knowledge. I am looking into it and it scares me a little but also feels completely okay. It is more the stigma other people have with this path. I am talking about Asatru.

Asatru is a pagan religion and why of life that is based on the old ways of the Noreman and the old western european religion with some local Gods and Goddesses but also a rich pantheon. I am talking about Thor, Wodan and Frya (to call some). I am especially drawn to the local dutch Goddess Nehalennia who is the Goddess of water and earth (a big dutch theme because living with and "fearing" both is part of being dutch ;)).

My problem with Asatru is that during WWII some germans used this religion to explain why they were superior. They started to use symbols which are still used by the neo-nazi's. Don't get me wrong I am REALLY not a nazi. I know the base of this religion is ok but is based on the Edda (bloody stories about the Gods and the three of life ;)). So I don't know what to do :(. Any insides to given me???